Queens of the Mic

Tonite tune into "My Mic Sounds Nice" a mini documentary premiering on BET, about some of the dopest femcees. Check your local listings for times.

More to Love 2

Our girl Amber Riley from Glee does it again at the Emmys. Again, size is nothing when you know how to dress your body shape.

Down the toilet

Love this song!!! I can relate and apply this to certain folks in my life. I am sure you all can too!

Soulmates for Life

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform your life…" -Elizabeth Gilbert
via Melody Ehsani blog

Champagne Taste...

I went from vodka to wine to tequila...still on tequila, btw, Cuervo is the best...and on to champagne. I have even turned some of my girlfriends into only champagne sippers. I have always had two cocktails I like that will turn any glass of house champagne aka cheap champagne into a delicious treat, that will get you fucked up! Forget Rose...we have grand marnier(an orange tasting cognac), and chambord(raspberry liquor). You can have an upscale night mimosa or raspberry blowpop tasting champagne cocktail. Next time you are at the bar...don't be afraid to try ladies! Yum!

MISS YOU BABYGIRL

In the Club

Last week I posted a list of nightclub no-nos on Twitter. They were well received, and a follower of mine suggested I post them on my blog. So here we go...

-First off, if you are not a club person...DON'T GO! You will only be a Debbie Downer, and bring the mood down with your dumb club jokes or attitude.


-Don't wait for the party...make the party. My girls and I always hit the floor first. I wanna be the first on...and the first off. I am the party..and if you truly think you are the shit..why are you waiting for people to validate your fun? Wack.

-Ladies, don't wait for NO man to buy you a drink. Its okay for a man to offer a young lady a drink...but never expect it. Besides, it makes you look more independent.

-Club Owners/Promoters, please stop with the bottle service crap. I know its your bread and butter...but its only PART of your bread and butter. Create a good vibe, and folks will want to buy a bottle. Don't make it seem like we can't party unless we pay $350 for a $35 bottle.

-Its not all about you. Confidence is cool...but please drop the ego at the club. Women, not every dude wants you...and men, not every woman thinks you want her. Ego causes drama...and fun shouldn't involve drama.

-Get to know the dj. This is sooooo important. Know the type of music your dj spins...and what crowd he produces. If you pay attention to this...it may save you a trip to a party you don't wanna be at.

-The elite attitude is not needed. Confidence is fine...but if you were so special, you would have your own club.

-Last but not least...be safe. Life should be treasured...not ruined.

Who wore it best?

Hahahaha! Its like one of those sections in a US Weekly or Life & Style mag. Today, we have Rosa Costa and lil ol' me! Rocking the cat eye cropped shirt from H&M. So who wore it best? Lmao!

I WANTS THESE NOW!

Chanel is always coming with the dopeness. Check out these jellies. Hot!!

How many licks?

Effortless

I love this look Lala is rocking. The color coordination, and simple chic got me immediately. Classic.

Team Kelis

It may be a throwback...but its absolutely stunning...

More to Love

Amber Reilly from Glee

I have always had girlfriends who were a lil more curvier than me. It was a time when I only rolled with "big girls". Everyone is equal to me...I see no shape or size...unless you dress it wrong, then there is a problem. The only downside to hanging with women is the self-esteem issues, especially with plus size sistas. I can only say so much to make you feel comfortable...but it starts with self. Thanks to more options, there are stores that cater to a multitude of sizes, such as Torrid, Great Glam, Forever 21, and more! Be fearless and bold! You can wear and do what you want! Experiment with different styles til you get it right! As long as its tasteful and hot!

Boot Licker

Every fashionista is excited to rock boots for the fall. We can't wait to get our well manicured hands on a pair of hot, black or brown boots to rock with those skinnies or leggings. I am very excited to get my hands on a pair of Dr. Martens. You saying I can be cute...and still look like I kick more ass than Angelina Jolie? Really? There is nothing wrong with being tough and sexy. Invest in a pair of ass whooping boots ladies...lol!

Grey Area

This is one version of my personal style in fall...

Black Power

Obama youngest daughter Sasha on vacay in Spain

MOB Action

I know. I know. I said I was through with MOB since they were sold to Coogi. But I see their signature design stamp has not changed. And they maybe...just maybe get a fan back. The fall '10 ish is dope.